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Thursday, May 19, 2011

Death is Nothing to Us - Epicurus (341-270BC)

Just came across this ancient branch of philosophy "Epicureanism" as I am super bored now and need to read something that can put me to sleep. I've been coughing incessantly, especially at night due to this super irritable throat. Feel like ripping it off and disassociate it from my head. Anyway, while flipping through this boring book, saw this diagram that depicts what Epicurus, an ancient Greek Philosopher, had taught about human's fear of death:


(sorry, iphone cannot zoom properly, click on the diagram to see it close-up)

Fear of Death
"One of the obstacles to enjoying the peace of a tranquil mind, Epicurus reasons, is the fear of death, and this fear is increased by the religious belief that if you incur the wrath of the gods, you will be severely punished in the afterlife. But rather than countering this fear by proposing an alternative state of immortality, Epicurus tries to explain the nature of death itself. He starts by proposing that when we die, we are unaware of our death, since our consciousness (our soul) ceases to exist at the point of death.
To explain this, Epicurus takes the view that the entire universe consists of either atoms or empty space, as argued by the atomist philosophers Democritus and Leucippus. Epicurus then reasons that the soul cannot be empty space, because it operates dynamically with the body, so it must be made up of atoms. He describes these atoms of the soul as being distributed around the body, but as being so fragile that they dissolve when we die, and so we are no longer capable of sensing anything. If you are unable to feel anything, mentally or physically, when you die, it is foolish to let the fear of death cause you pain while you are still alive"
(The Philosophy Book by DK, Pg64-65) [in my humble opinion, they could have used a more interesting name to this book]

With all due respect, due to my limited wisdom, I cannot understand the second paragraph with regards to "atoms" and how the soul can be associated with these lil' atoms and what's this occupation that I've just learned "atomist philosopher" and does it earn a lot of money, but..... the last part makes some sense to me (in bold)

And so... let me try to interpret... the gist of the matter here is that (the diagram best explains it), Epicurus argues that the goal of life is happiness and that our unhappiness is caused by fear and our main fear is that of death. So if we can overcome fear of death, we can be happy.

And death is the end of sensation, so it cannot be physically painful. Death is also the end of consciousness, thus it cannot be emotionally painful as well. So, there is nothing to fear about death and again if we can overcome fear of death, we can be happy.

Agree? No? Let me think.. wah.. worse.. cannot sleep.. bad idea to read such heavy stuff before bedtime:(

Wednesday, May 18, 2011

月圆夜



好想再看到他!
不知他也一样,
是否想见见她,
把心事诉一诉。

好美的夜色呀!
不知月下老人,
是否能帮帮她,
把红线牵一牵。

这宁静的月圆夜里,
愿有情人终成眷属。

Tuesday, May 17, 2011

Love always has its way...

Watched 3 nice movies during my recent HK trip in April. One on the plane ride to HK. The second one on the last night in HK and finally the last on my plane ride back to Singapore.

What I am intrigued by, is the similarity between the 3 movies though they were all of different genres. The first one, "The Way Back" is a WWII drama depicting the harrowing escape of a group of prisoners from the Russian concentration camp and finally to safety in India. Along the way, they tracked through the treacherous, barren terrain of Siberia into the god forsaken realm of emptiness in the Gobi Desert. In the end they conquered the seemingly invincible mountain tracks across the Himalayas into the arms of safety of India. Triumph of human spirit and will over nature. Fairytale ending number one.

Next up, needs no special introduction, Pretty Woman. It's simply adorable, an instant classic. Fell in love with Julia Roberts when I first saw her unpretending, truthful, endearing performance in the show. A simple young gal, fallen by the wayside, became a hooker and all this while harboring the dream of finding her Prince Charming. She got lucky one day when her knight in shining armor appeared in a Lotus and swept her away. The rest is history as they fell in love, found that they needed each other, gradually realizing that they couldn't do without one another. Sounds familiar eh? The catch here is... this is a hollywood movie and they usually have a fairytale ending for the audience.

The third one "Love and Other Drugs". A quirky one in which a suave, smooth-talking drugs salesman fell in love with a girl suffering from Parkinson's disease. This sounds serious but the show is somewhat "interesting" as I am "intrigued" by the seemingly endless portrayal of "nipples", "naked torsos", "orgasms", "Viagra","intimacy".. enough said. These are just distractions as we human, especially men, are easily distracted by such kinky references. Beneath this poorly weaved veil of distractions, lies the story of a couple finding love through this unfortunate episode. In the end, it's also a fairytale ending when the guy chose to give up his career and promotion to be with the girl.

You might think that the similarity ends there. In my humble opinion, all 3 shows have another similarity.. that is, their last scenes are poignant ones which bring out the flavor in them.

In "The Way Back", a young Polish officer was betrayed by his wife as she couldn't take the tortures by the Russians. Out of desperation, she falsely confessed that her husband was an anti-Stalinist element. Thrown into the abyss of ultimate betrayal, one by her most beloved wife, he sought the chance to see his wife again. He sought a moment of truth to face and forgive her. He knew that her wife was living a life as hellish as his, as she was constantly wrecked by the guilt of betraying her very own husband. In the last scene, many years after he escaped from the concentration camp and after the Stalinist government collapsed, he made his way back; this time back to the home he was so familiar with. As he entered the room, where his wife, now old and shriveled with age, quietly sat, he slowly advanced towards her and gave her a hug. No words; just tears flowed. Powerful stuff...


In the last scene in "Pretty Woman", Richard Gere, like the usual fairy tale ending, rode a "topless limousine" into the streets where Julia Roberts stayed. He waved his bouquet of flowers as he neared her apartment. She waved back, reliving her dream of rescue by her very own Prince Charming. This was a rescue of another sort for her; one that was set in reality. For him, it was a challenge. He had to overcome his fear of height as he climbed his way up the fireman access stairs to her apartment balcony. Sensing his determination as well as fear, she made her way down the stairs into his extended arms. He quipped "So what happened after he climbed up the tower and rescued her". Instantly, she replied "She rescues him right back". They kissed.. oh man..


And in "Love and Other Drugs", Jake Gyllenhaal finally realised that he couldn't do without Anne Hathaway. He hunted her down in a travel stop as she was travelling out of town in a bus. He got her out of the bus and the following conversation ensued.. enough said:
Maggie Murdock (Anne Hathaway): I'm gonna need you more than you need me.
Jamie Randall (Jake Gyllenhaal): That's okay.
Maggie Murdock: [crying] No it's not! It isn't *fair*! I have places to go!
Jamie Randall: You'll go there. I just may have to carry you.
Maggie Murdock: ...I can't ask you to do that.
Jamie Randall: You didn't.

[I simply adore this Love and Other Drugs trailer!!]

Love always has its way... hahaha

Monday, May 16, 2011

历史见证- 为国为民为子孙

朱元璋以一生不懈的努力与决心,成功地推翻了蒙古元朝,造就了一个新的朝代,汉族明朝。谁会想到,一个出身在贫穷的农户里,后来年幼父母双亡,为了求生到寺庙里当和尚的年轻人,能几经人间炼狱的考验,终于登上了一国九五之尊的最高地位。

当上了皇帝后,他推行了一系列有效的治国方针 ,使生活在水深火热的人民有了安居乐业的希望。这时,国家开始繁荣昌盛,人们在安定的社会里生活,开始对未来有了梦想与希望。

这时的朱元璋呢?他又开始烦恼了。他开始担心如何能维持他辛辛苦苦所得到的江山。他不是一个容易相信别人的君主。在他的眼里,他只能相信与他有血缘关系的亲人。他把兵权都分配了给自己的几个儿子,封他们为藩王,把他们分配到各地去镇守重镇与边疆,以保全朱家的天下。为了确保他的后代能世世代代,稳稳地 坐在龙椅上,他开始“清除”那些他觉得会对子孙不利的能臣与勇将。杀的杀,贬的贬。他精心地计划着,为了就是能为他的子子孙孙铺平道路,安安稳稳地做他们的皇帝。

但历史证明,他打的是如意算盘。太子朱标不幸去世后,他把皇位传给了朱标的大儿子,朱允炆。明朝的第二位皇帝登基后,在他身边谋臣的劝说下,开始“削藩”,把对他皇位构成威胁的“叔叔”们,一一地铲除。可是,他打的也是如意算盘。后来,他一心想灭的燕王,朱棣,反而以靖难之役的名义,把自己的皇位给夺了过去。而朱允炆在朱棣成功地攻进京城时,放火焚烧了宫殿,以身殉国。他的生死也因为找不到他的尸首而成了千古之迷。

这一切的发展,我看是朱元璋所料不到的。他处心积虑地谋略,以为他所布置的一切能万无一失。可是他万万没想到他的子孙会这么快的为了争夺皇位而自相残杀。

说到这里,我感触良多。所谓的创业难,守业更难。一个人有能力控制的,就只能局限在自己掌权或还活着时所能做的一切。在自己放权或撒手归西之后,你的子孙们怎样去“发扬” 或 “糟蹋” 你所留下来的事业,就得靠他们自己的造化了。朱元璋的顾虑是出致于他对人民与家人的爱护与关怀,希望他们能在他死后继续地安居乐业。可是,后来局势的变化是他不能了解与控制的。

从另一个角度来看,把事业托付给子孙,给他们完全的权力去管理事业也何尝不是一个能让他们磨练的好机会。遇到危机的时候,他们得理智地做出判断去化解种种的问题。经过现实生活的各种亲身考验后,才能领悟到守业的艰辛,这何尝也不是为他们上了宝贵的一课。朱允炆,登上皇位时,只不过是一个二十来岁的年青小伙子。他缺乏的,正是他叔叔,朱棣经过连年战乱里所累积的宝贵“社会”经验。在这场争夺皇位的斗争中,他彻底地输掉了自己所拥有的一切。相反的,朱棣在这场斗争中,以自己的能力争取了自己一向来,觉得属于自己的东西,大明的皇位。历史也证明了,他也其实是一位好皇帝,为人民开拓了“永乐盛世”,以不屈不饶的精神,一生为人民贡献。他对待对手的残酷,在这里我就不多说了。

还有,在社会迅速地发展与价值观不断的演变下,新的一代所追求的目标与上一代所拥有的成果,也有可能是不一样的。因时势的转变而对一向处理事务的方针做出适当的调整是必要的。尤其是现在,在这科技与通讯发达的社会里,一切都讲究做事要快而准的办事效率。如果一味地以“小心驶得万年船”的态度去处理事务的话,那就极有可能会错失许多良机。朱棣,永乐年间,派了郑和下西洋,为了就是开拓明朝帝国的海域,对外进行贸易与文化交流。在当时,这样做其实是违反了明朝始祖,朱元璋不对外开放的政策。当时的文武百官,大多都反对他的决定。可是,在朱棣眼里,要使大明繁荣昌盛,这样做是必要的。历史也证明了他英明独断的理国之道,是正确的。当他决定把大都从南京迁移到北京时也遭受到了大臣们的极力反对。可是,他还是一意孤行,完成了把大都建立在北京的愿望。历史又证明了他精明果断的决定,为中国人民留下了一座千古不朽的历史古迹,北京故宫。如果朱棣,墨守成规,一味的按照祖训治理国家,那我们还能看到在永乐年间所创造的盛势吗?

当朱棣,巩固了大明的江山,把大明推到了前所未有的光辉时代时,他也这时开始烦恼了。烦恼什么呢?和他父皇,朱元璋一样,他开始烦恼大明是否能继续繁荣地发展下去,他的子孙能否安稳地保住朱家的江山。大家的老毛病又犯了!这也其实是无可厚非的。要了解到,一个人一生所拼出来的事业,无疑地,也希望能把它顺利地交给子孙,为下一代做出一点贡献。可是,朱元璋与朱棣再英明神武也料不到将来会发生什么事。做了再多的防备,也只不过是权宜之计罢了,不能完全抵制将来的种种变数。

在这浩瀚的宇宙里,一个人的存在是多么的渺小,一个人能改变未来的能力是有限的,一个人的一生只是昙花一现罢了。尽力去做自己得做的事,求个问心无愧就足够了。未来会怎么样,就让下一代去担心吧,自己是管不来的!历史其实是最好的见证!

Tuesday, May 10, 2011

喜欢你



上个星期六,投了票之后,我就得在当天飞去印尼,去参加一位好朋友的婚礼。在途中,在爸爸的车里,耳边突然传来《喜欢你》这首动听的粤语歌。我又被它的旋律给深深吸引住了:

细雨带风湿透黄昏的街道
抹去雨水双眼无故地仰望
望向孤单的晚灯 是那伤感的记忆

再次泛起心里无数的思念
以往片刻欢笑仍挂在脸上
愿你此刻可会知 是我衷心的说声

喜欢你 那双眼动人 笑声更迷人
愿再可 轻抚你 那可爱面容
挽手说梦话 像昨天 你共我


当Beyond的黄家驹唱到下一段时,我心里突然涌起一阵的悲痛。又想起你了,怀念起“你那动人的双眼与迷人的笑声”:

满带理想的我曾经多冲动
屡怨与她相爱难有自由
愿你此刻可会知 是我衷心的说声

喜欢你 那双眼动人 笑声更迷人
愿再可 轻抚你 那可爱面容
挽手说梦话 像昨天 你共我


这时我也想起了黄家驹英年早逝的悲剧。正当Beyond的音乐事业如日冲天时,这支乐团的主打歌手,黄家驹,因在日本拍摄节目时,从高处摔下,头部伤势严重而逝世,享年31岁。所谓的天妒英才呀!心里这时觉得好酸,好酸。。。不用多说,你应该知道我联想起什么了吧!好舍不得,好舍不得。最后的这几句,刚刚好描述了我那时的心情:

每晚夜里自我独行
随处荡 多冰冷
已往为了自我挣扎
从不知 她的痛苦

喜欢你 那双眼动人 笑声更迷人
愿再可 轻抚你 那可爱面容
挽手说梦话 像昨天 你共我


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《喜欢你》歌词:

细雨带风湿透黄昏的街道
抹去雨水双眼无故地仰望
望向孤单的晚灯 是那伤感的记忆

再次泛起心里无数的思念
以往片刻欢笑仍挂在脸上
愿你此刻可会知 是我衷心的说声

喜欢你 那双眼动人 笑声更迷人
愿再可 轻抚你 那可爱面容
挽手说梦话 像昨天 你共我

满带理想的我曾经多冲动
屡怨与她相爱难有自由
愿你此刻可会知 是我衷心的说声

喜欢你 那双眼动人 笑声更迷人
愿再可 轻抚你 那可爱面容
挽手说梦话 像昨天 你共我

每晚夜里自我独行
随处荡 多冰冷
已往为了自我挣扎
从不知 她的痛苦

喜欢你 那双眼动人 笑声更迷人
愿再可 轻抚你 那可爱面容
挽手说梦话 像昨天 你共我

Saturday, May 7, 2011

五月七日 - 平凡的一天

今天一大清早,我和我老爹就到投选站去投票了。投选站里气氛严肃,大家也没怎么多谈,井井有条地排队等候投票。不一会儿的功夫,我们就投了票,往咖啡店走去吃早餐咯!走着走着,我不禁地想想,新加坡办什么活动,做什么事情都那么地有效率。

说也奇怪,经过这期间所亲身体验到的,大家对大选沸腾的议论,在今天投选的日子里,什么高昂的情绪都已经冷却下来了。五月七日对我来说,只不过是平凡的一天。

今天,我和爸爸有机会到咖啡店里吃早餐,聊聊当年我小时后的往事,唤起了不少美丽的回忆。心里好开心。这种感觉对我来说比大选还重要。亲情是无价的。

Tuesday, May 3, 2011

新加坡大选 - 大选的那些事儿 (上)

五月七日。新加坡公民(除了少数不需要投票的人民)将在当天,投下神圣的一票,投选他们所支持的政党或议员。在此我不禁地想了想,如果人民拥有实际的权力去决定治理国家的领导班底,比起以往或现在的一些国家,新加坡人民可算是幸运的了。

从古至今,被外来的侵略者攻占而被强行统治的例子比比皆是,如宋朝被外来的蒙古族所灭,新加坡在二战被日本占领等例子。人民在强权的威迫下,只好战战兢兢地过日子, 哪里还谈得上有权力去“投选政府“。近期也有以独裁统治而陷人民于水深火热的统治者。如北朝鲜,缅甸等例子。在一人,军人或一党的独裁统治下,人民实际上是没有权力可言的。能在险中求存,已经是一件艰难的事了,哪里还谈得上有权力去投票选政府呢?

所以说,在我们手里的一票,是象征着大多数人所向往的,民主自由的权力。在投神圣的一票时,要深思熟虑,不要把投票当儿戏或一件理所当然的事来看待。如果你草率地对待大选,那你可对不起了为民主自由而牺牲的人呀!其实,话说得太重了。选错了,你只好再憋多五年,才能选你后悔没投选的政党吧!

以上的开场白,只是要提醒大家,大选的重要性。上几届,这一届或下一届,统统都重要!一个国家的兴衰,往往与她政治体系的演变,有着直接的厉害关系。选了没能力的政党,人民辛辛苦苦,以血泪建立起来的家园,有可能在短时间内被毁于一旦。拿津巴布韦(Zimbawe)为例子, 2000年开始,津巴布韦政府以白人所持有的土地是在殖民地时代从黑人原住民手中非法取得为理由,进行土地改革,强制性地没收大部分白人拥有的土地。此举造成境内大量白种农人出走,经济陷入混乱,通货膨胀率节节上升。这个本来能自给自足的非洲富裕国家,在短短的几年内变成了世界“数一数二”的贫穷国家。可怕吧!

话又说回来,新加坡能有今天的成就,不仅归功于英明,廉正的执政党,还得归功于人民。人民是国家的根本,国家最大的财富。所以说,慎重地对待,考量“民心”与“民意”也是一个成功的政府所不能忽视的重要环节。俗语说,顺民心合民意者昌,丢民心逆民意者亡。接下来,谈到了本文的重点。

现任的新加坡执政政府,到底有没有不听民意之嫌,而失去了广大人民的支持呢?

在这次大选之际,在我或大多数新加坡人脑海里都不免有着一些百思不解的“困惑”,包括以上谈到的问题。刚好,我前两天读了《明朝那些事儿》,就决定以在明朝统治期间所发生的一些事迹,尝试以对比的方式来讨论眼下的这些”困惑“。

1)执政人民行动党的新候选人,尤其是那些被党安排在”垂手可得“的集选区内的候选人,大多是从国家的各个政府部门调配来参选的人才。他们都是在各自的工作领域里,发挥了他们的才能,而得到政府的垂青,给了他们贡献回社会的机会,被分配到各个选区或集选区参选。从每个角度看来,这些候选人似乎都是出类拔萃的人选,个个都是某某鼎鼎大名的大学毕业生,顶尖的知识份子。但是,重要的问题是,他们有为人民请命,为人民争取福利的决心吗?还是他们只是在党鞭下,一呼百应,顺风行驶的傀儡呢?

科举制度在明朝时代发扬光大,造就了很多的“言官”。顾名思义,就是那些常把四书五经,伦理道德放在嘴边的“说话”的官。朱元璋建国年初,设立了“都察院”。掌管都察院的官员为左右都御史。这些人的权力极大,见到他们觉得有违法纪的事情,他们都有权力阻止或反对。就连皇上老子他们也不放过,有权力劝阻皇上做任何事。转眼回到现实,我们的议员有这种胆识来监管政府的政策吗?在国会里各持己见,对自己觉得不合理的事而掏出胸怀,辩论到底呢?难。如果你恼怒了皇上老子,后果你可想而知了。

继续再谈这些饱读诗书,出口成章的“言官”。既然他们那么博学渊源,那他们所提出的意见,是一定能实践的方案吗?他们大多也是些不识大体,不识时务,认死理去干的书呆子。他们往往也都缺乏了在社会基层里实际办事的经验。其实单靠知识与学识来办事是不行的。我们有这种缺乏某种现实经验而只会纸上谈兵的议员或部长吗?你们还记得在春秋战国时代,赵括纸上谈兵的故事吧。因他的无能与对实战愚昧的看待,赵军被秦军一举歼灭,数十万赵军也被秦军活埋了。如果一个政府部门实行了错误的政策,影响的不止是现在的社会与人民。这些政策的影响力也极有可能会影响到下一代。还记得新加坡当年实行的”两个就好“的生育政策吧!这个政策的失误给广大人民带来了难以估计的负面影响。

2)执政的人民行动党,一向都强调,一个有效率的政府,不需要反对党在国会里有太多的影响力来抗衡执政党。他们也认为反对党事实上,只是为了反对而反对执政党在国会里所讨论的论点,没有具体的方针或计划来治理好国家。还有,执政党对待人民的方式,在某种程度上,也有不听取民意之嫌。他们一贯的作风就是:”我决定的事,说了就算,一定是对你好的。你不用再多说,听我的就对了。“ 这样的观点,我可大大地不认同。

朱元璋在洪武十三年间废除了丞相,这个一人之下,万人之上的职位。以朱元璋一意孤行的性格,丞相对他来说是一个让他需要花无谓的时间来解释他所做的每一个决定的绊脚石。明朝最后一个贪赃枉法的丞相,胡惟庸就成了他开刀的对象。在某种程度上,朱元璋这样做,巩固了皇帝在朝廷里的权力。可是,以历史为见证,丞相这个职位是必要的。治理好一个国家是一件谈何容易的事。一个统治者,日理万机,要好好地治理庞大的国家,也一定需要有能力的帮手。皇帝老子也有一时昏庸的时候,丞相也往往能在必要时,提醒提醒一下皇上,以免他铸成大错。俗语说,良药苦口利于病,忠言逆耳利于行。其实呀,有时有些反对的”杂声“是必要的。


3)大家都为部长的“俸禄”而大作文章。在一项非官方的调查中,新加坡的总统,总理,部长等的薪金在世界排名,名类前茅。而人民行动党,一贯的解释就是,以高薪才能吸引到在私人领域中成功创业的人才来到政府部门做部长,为人民服务。这解释你接受吗?我可不觉得,不一味地接受这种说法。一个有抱负,要为民请命的好官,真的会为了俸禄的多少,而量”禄“而为吗?

话说明朝最有名的清官,海瑞,一生爱民如子,甘心奉献他的一生,不辞劳苦地为人民请命。他从不计较朝廷给他的俸禄有多少,也往往把他的私人财物用来救济那些更需要帮助的穷苦人民。海瑞这位从不贪图荣华富贵,一心只为人民的好官,死后身上也没有任何值钱的东西。他一直以来家徒四壁,更难以置信的是,家里人连为他办丧事,买棺材的钱也没有,真让人心寒。

请不要误会,我举海瑞这个例子,不是希望咋们的部长们也都两袖清风,不求任何回报地为人民服务。我了解到在现实社会里,要有象海瑞这样生活的清官是不可能的。但我认为议员或部长,就象老师或护士一样,都是神圣的工作。这些肩负神圣使命的工作者,秉持的主要宗旨往往就是为他人服务而不把薪金的高低列为考虑的主要因素。如果我们只能以高薪来吸引“人才”为人民服务的话,那我们的社会里就存在着一颗随时会爆炸的计时炸弹了。新加坡人民全都那么肤浅吗?新加坡真的没有肯为人民服务而做出种种牺牲的”圣人“吗?在这里你有没有想到人民党的詹时中先生呢?他不辞劳苦地在波东巴西社区里为人民服务。在资源限制的情况下,他含辛茹苦地波东巴西治理得井井有条。为什么有资源限制这点,我也不必多说了,大家心知肚明了!人民要的,就是这种不畏惧强权,不怕困难而坚持自己的信念,一生为民请命的好官,好议员!

写到这里,心里还有一些与大选相关的事宜想写出来。再过一天就是投票日了,不写就来不及了。可是,现在就是太累了,心有余而力不足。有可能大选成绩公布之后,我再写我的下篇吧!

The Hard Truths about an Aljunied Voter's Dilemma by Desmond Mao

Came across this very well-written article whereby a voter in Aljunied voiced his genuine concerns about the current state of politics, he saw unfolding in Singapore.

His views are somewhat balanced; with a slight bias towards the ruling PAP party in my humble opinion. Nevertheless, he did point out a few thought provoking points which I hope the ruling party will put some serious thoughts into. It pays to listen to voices from the ground and not just brushing them off as mere noise.

Well done, Desmond. It's a pleasure reading your article.



The Hard Truths about an Aljunied Voter's Dilemma
by Desmond Mao


Its 2 May 2011 at 1am and my mind is in a whirlpool.

Being a 29 year old voter from Aljunied GRC, I find myself in the eye of the storm. This GRC has been described as the frontline of battle in this election. Since the start of election campaigning, the fight for this GRC has dominated the front pages of the Straits Times, testament to the fear within the ruling party that this 5-member GRC may fall into the opposition hands.

Balanced views on the GE are hard to find. Mainstream media is biased towards the PAP, much of social media seems heavily biased towards the WP. Recognising that everyone has their bias and prejudices (including me), this long-winded essay is my attempt at distilling my thoughts on what's at stake for Aljunied voters.

I attended the 1st 2 WP rallies at Hougang and Serangoon stadium and went home amazed yet disturbed. WP rallies are a phenomenon in this country. No other event in recent history can bring people from all races, young and old, rich and poor, English and non-English speakers together to stand like packed sardines in one place. Its amazing (and ironic) that politics has the potential to be both a unifying and divisive force in society.

The disturbing part stemmed from the many angry voices from the audience. Multitudes of people seemed to bear a grudge against the ruling party and the rally afforded a wonderful opportunity to let rip at them. The failures of the PAP were highlighted time and time again, playing to the destructive nature of the mob. As I sat pondering on how these 'inept' PAP ministers should be held accountable, an acute sense of my own fallibilities overwhelmed me.

As a medical doctor in a public hospital, I have made my fair share of errors (some quite horrendous). By the mercies of God, none of them resulted in fatal outcomes to my patients. After explanations and apologies, much grace has been extended to me, giving me an opportunity to learn from my mistakes and to continue serving.

Even the best of us makes mistakes. Let he who is without sin cast the first stone.

Decades of good governance has caused the citizens to come to expect perfection from our Ministers. Sure, we had 2 unforeseen floods, a HDB housing issue, the YOG overran the budget and a man with a limp escaped from prison. Are not Ministers but mere mortals with blind spots like the rest of us? Can they foretell the future? While we need accountability, do we want to foster a culture where absolutely no mistakes are tolerated?

Dark clouds are in the horizon for Singapore. Both the leaders of the country and the enlightened members of the opposition know it. Singapore faces, among many problems, a rapidly aging population. The baby boomers are starting to retire. Soon our population would be like that of Japan, where a rapidly shrinking workforce would have to bear the escalating burdens of caring for young and old. As a nation, we have collectively come to expect the government to eradicate all problems in this country and continue to provide us with an increase in our quality of life.

Come on! Get real! There will always be poor people in amongst us who will fall through the cracks. Even with the best systems in place, there will be a certain level of injustice because the system is thought of and run by human beings! I am of the opinion that the PAP has already performed admirably. Would the opposition do any better? I seriously doubt it.

The PAP of today is clean, has no sex scandals, and makes generally good policies for Singapore. I believe their biggest problems lie with their failure in moderating the expectations of Singaporeans, and their desire to overwhelmingly dominate parliament at all cost.

Is our growth in GDP even sustainable? Is it the government's responsibility to ensure that you get your pay rise, your choice home, your cheap healthcare, that your child goes to your choice school, your comfortable transportation and the list goes on. Its ludicrous to read certain complaint letters in the forum pages. Some Singaporeans have no shame in the things they complain about. The frequent refrain is 'what is the gah-men going to do about this?' Its sad that this country has bred so many 'spoilt brats' who have come to depend on the government to meet their every need. The replies from certain ministries is even more laughable. At times, in a bid to retain the popular vote, the PAP and the civil service have chosen instead to upset the natural order of things by bending over backwards to accede to unreasonable requests.

Can the government continue to satisfy the dreams, aspirations and demands of each generation? Human beings have an insatiable appetite for discontentment. The PAP's present method of pleasing the electorate with goodies and increased efficiency of the civil service would only serve to temporarily appease the electorate rather than truly build this nation.

What then do the people really want? Mr Chiam See Tong and Mr Low Thia Kiang have both held on to their SMCs despite having vastly less resources compared to the PAP and their candidates. Why is that so?
Both men are capable, extremely dedicated leaders, and men of integrity. People recognise that and respect them for it. Thus despite PAP's Eric Low describing Hougang as a 'slum', I have no doubt that should Mr Low have stood in Hougang SMC, Mr Eric Low wouldn't have had a sliver of a chance this election. The PAP needs to realise that while Singaporeans do want to improve their lot, the majority are not materialistic people who vote solely based on selfish reasons. Like the American voters who propelled Barack Obama from a nobody to President of the United States, Singaporeans are on the lookout for a leader who understands and care for the people, a leader whom we can rally around to achieve our collective dream. Mr Chiam and Mr Low are 2 such leaders. While the people of their respective constituencies received much less than their richer neighbours, Potong Pasir and Hougang continued to vote in their MPs election after election, because they loved their leaders, and their leaders loved them.

Unfortunately, the PAP no longer inspires such devotion from the electorate.

To me, the biggest factor is the salary of a Minister. Don't get me wrong, I have nothing against paying someone his fair wage. Everyone needs to eat and put food on the table for his family. The issue is that such great amounts of money attract the wrong candidates and corrupt the calling to serve the people. At the risk of being called naive, I believe that politics is much like the noble professions of teaching, doctoring and nursing, and the clergy. Wasn't it the late Dr Goh Keng Swee that told fresh candidates joining the PAP that they were joining a 'holy order'?

The excuse given by the PAP is that if we don't pay top dollar, they would have trouble recruiting top-notched candidates. Why has this happened? Has the PAP ceased to inspire good people to join its ranks and therefore needs to use the lure of money? If part of the motivation to join the PAP is because of the high salary, how willing would these Ministers/MPs be to serve in a difficult time (eg war, economic collapse) when Singapore isn't able to pay them as much? Even if they had pure, idealistic motives of serving this country, the very scale of their salaries breeds cynicism amongst the electorate. Every time this issue is brought up, the moral authority of the PAP to govern is eroded. My personal view is that the salaries of the ministers should be decided by an independent President. And the salary of the President should be a factor of the median income of the average working Singaporean. But this proposal is a discussion for another day.

The PAP's current practice of parachuting top-notched technocrats from the civil service, SAF and private sector into ministerial positions, through the GRC system, is a perculiar one which may not stand the test of time. No one doubts that these technocrats are extremely smart, capable people who are probably men of integrity with a proven track record. They would probably make good permanent secretaries! Yet, these factors in themselves, would be inadequate to consider them good politicians.

A good politician is NOT an extension of the civil service. Rather, a good politician understands and is able to inspire and rally the electorate into following him in his decisions, even if it means sacrificing our lives to protect this country. I find it laughable that we are told that the 4th PM of Singapore may be amongst the new candidates, but this supposed 4th PM is going to ride into Parliament on the tailcoats of a heavyweight. This brings me to my next point.

I believe in the GRC system. After 45 years of independence, I choose to believe that we have deepened our bonds as Singaporeans. Still, like it or not, many today still vote based on one's race, religion and language. To ensure minority representation, the GRC is a necessity.

As with any other well-intentioned idea, the devil is in the details. I disagree with manner of GRC implementation on three counts.
Firstly, why do we need such a big GRC? Wouldn't a 3-4 member GRC suffice to ensure minority representation?
Secondly, shouldn't new PAP candidates be given the opportunity to prove their own worth by running in SMCs? While there may be issues that arise in filling all SMCs with new candidates (less likely to field a minority candidate in an SMC), only 2 out 11 SMCs have new candidates (Hougang and Potong Pasir). With newly carved out SMCs, this is the best election to allow new candidates to receive a baptism of fire and allow them to have the people's mandate. The GRC system is now being used by the PAP to allow weak candidates to get into parliament. This is an abuse of the original intent of the GRC system that cannot be good for Singapore.
Thirdly, the frequent re-drawing of GRC boundaries (especially in Aljunied) has served to increase the popular belief that PAP does not play fair.

I belong to a segment of voters from Aljunied who love Singapore and are tired of the politics of negativity. We are tired of the opposition opposing for its own sake. We are tired of angry people venting nonsensically at a government who cannot be responsible for all their troubles. We are tired of the PAP's pettiness in denying opposition wards their full rights as citizens who pay taxes and serve NS. We are tired of unfair play by the PAP in manipulating the system for self-preservation of the party. We are tired of the scare-mongering by the PAP and WP that the fall of a GRC into either party would lead to a crippled, partisan government or a total collapse of the opposition.

We're better than that.

There are several issues that I wish to address:
1) The WP needs to reveal its plan for Aljunied GRC
I'm not sure why the party is keeping mum about this issue. It could be because they are unsure of the amount of funds they would receive to run the town council etc... but I'm just speculating. Or *shudder*, there is NO plan for Aljunied?
I encourage Mr Low to tell us your plans and anticipated difficulties in running this GRC? Surely we as voters have a right to know. Surely we as voters would make allowances for your parties' performance should there be problems from underhanded play from the ruling party!

2) Aljunied will NOT become a desolate desert after 5 years
Mr Low TK and Ms Sylvia Lim are also people with track records. Please stop treating Aljunied voters in such a condescending manner. Having said that, I still retain a whole lot of respect for you MM Lee.

3) The PAP will still win a 2/3s majority in this election and Parliament will not be crippled

4) There is absolutely nothing wrong if the WP ends up winning more GRCs in the next election or sets up the government one day
If WP do win Aljunied GRC and do such a good job both in Aljunied and in Parliament, what's to keep them for winning more GRCs in the next election? This can only bode well for Singapore. Naturally, the people of Singapore need to be discerning in deciding if the WP candidates have been constructive rather than destructive in Parliament and evaluate their performance based on that. A little more debate in Parliament never hurt anyone and may just be the catalyst to revive interest in good people joining the PAP again.
Thanks for making it to the end of this long rant from me. I welcome any feedback although I may choose not to reply.
If I have offended you in any way, please accept my apologies.

Wednesday, April 27, 2011

Sara - a beautiful song

...by Starship. I'll never find another girl like you, for happy endings it takes two...



Go now, don't look back, we've drawn the line
Move on, it's no good to go back in time
I'll never find another girl like you, for happy endings it takes two
We're fire and ice, the dream won't come true

Sara, Sara, storms are brewin' in your eyes
Sara, Sara, no time is a good time for goodbyes

Danger in the game when the stakes are high
Branded, my heart was branded while my senses stood by
I'll never find another girl like you, for happy endings it takes two
We're fire and ice, the dream won't come true

Sara, Sara, storms are brewin' in your eyes
Sara, Sara, no time is a good time
Sara, Sara, storms are brewin' in your eyes
Sara, Sara, no time is a good time for goodbyes

'Cause Sara loved me like no one has ever loved me before
And Sara hurt me, no one could ever hurt me more
And Sara, Sara
And Sara, nobody loved me anymore

I'll never find another girl like you
We're fire and ice, the dream won't come true

Sara, Sara, no time is a good time, oh
Sara, Sara, storms are brewin' in your eyes
Sara, Sara, no time is a good time for goodbyes

Sara, Sara, storms are brewin' in your eyes
Sara, Sara, no time is a good time, oh
Ooh Sara, why did it, why did it, why did it all fall apart?

Friday, April 22, 2011

你曾经有过这样的感觉吗?

你曾经有过这种感觉吗?你以为你已经做了决定,去追寻你以为你想要拥有的东西。可是当你接近目标时,目标总是忽近忽远的,让你无法琢磨。这时的你又不知所措,退了一步,想一想,这真的是你想要的吗?

你曾经有过这种感觉吗?你鼓起勇气去追求她的愛,好想好想得到她的承诺,和她共渡美好的将来。可是她拒绝了。“现在不是时候,我还有很多自己想要做的事,想要追逐的梦想。让时间证明一切,如果有缘的话,我们会在一起的。”

你曾经有过这种感觉吗?你害怕失去现在和她拥有的一切。无形的默契,快乐的时光,无私的友情。她不在的时候,你会想她。好想听一听她的声音,享受她的关怀。可是你好害怕,如果你对她表示你对她的爱意,她会接受不了,离你而去。“还是保持现状吧!总有一天她会发现你的存在”

你曾经有过这种感觉吗?你默默地注意着她一切的一切。她不开心的时候,你也不开心。尝试逗一逗她开心。她失落的时候,你会鼓励她勇往直前。她寂寞的时候,你就陪陪她说一说话。只要她开心,你就开心了!

你曾经有过这种感觉吗?看到她,你就有一种莫名其妙的冲动想要抱一抱她,把她放在你的怀抱里,永远的保护她,不让她受任何的伤害。

你曾经有过这种感觉吗?你愿意为一个人,放下你一直秉持的一切,包括梦想与信仰。随她追逐她的梦想,随她去她最终要去的地方。

你曾经有过这种感觉吗?她到底心里有你吗?为什么她有时对你好,有时又对你不理不睬的?她把你忘了吗?其实,她还感觉不到你对她的重要。

你曾经有过这种感觉吗?你想为她做一些能让她开心的小惊喜。为她做她喜欢吃的东西,买她喜欢的东西,写一下小卡片,发一发小简讯,问一问她“你今天好吗?”让她觉得,她对你是多么的重要。

你曾经有过这种感觉吗?你盼望着她对你的一点小关心。问一问你好吗?问一问你今天工作顺利吗?祝一祝你晚安。我相信你那晚会睡的,好甜蜜好甜蜜。

你曾经有过这种感觉吗?她睡着了。你一直看着她睡着的样子。心里好温馨,好温馨。“你对她轻轻地说,小公主,好好地睡吧,你不用担心有我在!”她轻轻地动了一下,脸上露出了一丝幸福的表情,仿佛对你说“我知道!你对我最好!”

你曾经有过这种感觉吗?发白日梦的时候,想着想着,不知不觉地,想到了她。她的一举一动,笑容,冒失,堵嘴的表情。心里涌现了慕名其妙的小快乐。其实你很容易满足的,不是吗?

你曾经有过这种感觉吗?和她逗嘴时,你想让一让她。和她玩耍时,让她不觉的以为她赢了。她开心地对你说“你看!我比你厉害喔!” 你心里这时想“只要你开心就好!”

你曾经有过这种感觉吗?你握着她的手,温暖,不是吗?不想放手。只想永远地牵一牵她的小手,摇一摇,摇到外婆桥。

你曾经有过这种感觉吗?你好不开心,好不开心。什么希望都没了。完蛋了。她出现了。笑一笑,对你打趣地说“你怎样了” 你笑着对她说“没事了!”

你曾经有过这种感觉吗?她对你说的一切,你都记住了。细心地聆听她所对你说的每一句话。一天,她发觉你还记得她提过的一件事,有点惊讶。其实,很简单,对你心爱的人,记得她的一切,是一件再简单也不过的事。

你曾经有过这种感觉吗?看到她不理你,或不知不觉地没注意到你,和别人聊着聊着,把你忘了。你吃醋了,心里好不是滋味。可是,当她突然朝你那边看了看,和你说了一句话。你马上原谅了她。她其实是可爱的。

你曾经有过这样的感觉吗?她不以为意地对你说,她会想你的。你当真了。开心地对她说你也很想她。其实,她只是随口说说吧了。不管怎样,你已经很满足了。

你曾经有过这些感觉吗?

总有一天, 当她也和你一样,心里有着这一切的感觉,你们就是彼此真心地爱着对方。幸福已向你们招手了!有情人终成眷属。

Monday, April 11, 2011

RGS - Filiae Melioris Aevi

Hi Dear,



Recently received a card from Mrs Julie Hoo, your beloved principal from RGS. On behalf of the Board of Governors, Principal, Staff and Pupils of RGS, she thanked us for our donation towards "Support an RGS Pupil Scheme" and "Raffles Program Fund".

It read " Your generous gesture and kind support will go a long way in supporting the RGS girl. Filiae Melioris Aevi"

Mrs Hoo also wrote a personal thank you note, thanking us for helping them carrying on with your work in RGS.

Hey dear, you are still contributing to the good cause of education and still helping the girls you adore! Your legacy lives on...
True to the motto and spirit of RGS, Filiae Melioris Aevi.. Daughters of a better age...I am so so proud of you.

Miss you much:)

Sunday, April 10, 2011

《清明》



《清明》 (唐)杜牧

清明时节雨纷纷,  
路上行人欲断魂。
借问酒家何处有?
牧童遥指杏花村。

Tuesday, March 29, 2011

Reflections (1) - Hatred

Is it easy to hate someone? Imagine you hate someone so much that you wanted so badly to thrust your 10 fingers into his/her throat every single moment of your waking hour. And if the chance comes, when you're given the immunity to fire a bullet into his/her head, would you dare to do it? You might hesitate a bit cos simply.. it's not in human's nature to want to destroy or kill. If it's that difficult, why can't you just choose not to hate?

Oh ok... I'm thinking too simplistically again. But that's me... why make it so complicated when it can be that simple? 拿得起就要放得下。Wait.. you sure it's so easy for you to "放得下?"



Ok let me prove my point by telling you a story... long long time ago in China, in central China to be exact.....

Ok much easier to use an analogy than to tell a story. Today someone told me about this analogy that makes me see a whole new perspective in life. Let me try to regurgitate the same analogy as much to you and see if you can see my point:
Try holding on to a cup of water. You might think that it's a piece of cake. Try holding it for 5mins, you'll start to feel the discomfort. Hold on for another 5mins, you'll start to feel the strain. Hold on for another 5mins, you'll start to feel the pain. Hold on for another 5mins, you'll start to feel the agony and think that you want to die.
So what about after holding it for 5mins, put the cup of water down, rest for a while, flex your hand muscles and then hold it back up for the next 5mins. Isn't it easier to do it this way; taking a min's rest before you continue to do what you're supposed to do?

The cup of water can be your responsibility in life or at work or it can be cups of water in broader sense when you juggle a few "cups" with both your hands or on your arms and knees, all at the same time. Some of us carry or choose to carry upon ourselves, many cups of water. We just need to learn when to put them down for a while before putting them back on us again. Thus we're not talking about throwing the cup or cups of water away; it's about understanding the balance and the need to know when to "放下“,"let go" for a while so that we have the physical or mental strength to achieve what we want to achieve in the longer term; towards achieving our ultimate goal.

In my humble opinion, in a similar context, when you miss someone who's no longer around, you'll need to let the feelings go once in a while or for an extended period of time, simply because you'd need to take a step back and reassess your priorities in life. Makes no sense to mire yourself in self-pity or sadness and forget about your priorities in real life. It makes no sense either, to push away your caring family members or friends who are still around you, giving you the support that spurs you on.

Having said that, our innermost, innate feelings are still intact; the very feeling that you still have for the very special person who lives in your heart forever. So true to the essence of the "holding the cup of water" analogy, it's easier to miss someone this way than to either think about the person every single moment of your life or to forget the person totally and move on.

Back to our main topic of the day about hatred or hating someone. And so... even if you hate someone, you'll need to take a break once in a while to take a well-deserved breather. Get that irritating person out of your mind for a while, so that you can hate him "longer" without feeling the strain!

Then again, isn't it easier to let go of this cup of water which you can choose to let go? Unlike responsibilities in life or someone you love whom you'd want to hold on to, you can easily throw away this cup of water which is causing you so much pain and agony.

That's about all; my humble 2 cents worth. Oh ok.. I knew it; you gonna say, it's not that simple after all lah! I would just retort again..."Why make it so complicated when it's so simple lah!"

Rene Descartes' "I think therefore I am (cogito ergo sum)". Sounds familiar? It's all in your own state of mind; you're what you are thinking. Choose to feel angry or choose to feel happy? F!@#$% it's your damn choice lah!

Sunday, March 27, 2011

不能说的秘密:优美的钢琴曲

好怀念你弹钢琴的姿态,耳熟能详的音乐。好希望,好希望我也能和你一起弹弹琴,沉醉在悠扬悦耳的曲子里。

这里有一系列的钢琴曲献给你。你一定会喜欢的!

第一首。富有韵味的四手联弹。洋溢着简单的快乐,喜悦。流露出天真无邪的趣味,天衣无缝的默契。听了好开心,好开心!:



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三首钢琴斗曲。急促,激情,汹涌澎湃,温柔间带着勇气与顽强的斗志。赞!:



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凄美动听的曲子。坚贞的爱,真挚的情,流露无疑。心坎里好温馨,好温馨:



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这一首不是和上一首曲子一样吗?画面里可是掺杂着期待,失望,又带有一丝的快乐与悲伤。奇怪。同样的曲子,不同的韵味。人类一般上都是注重视觉多过于听觉吧!



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最后一首。完美的完结篇。在旧钢琴室里弹完曲子后,你就能穿越时空,回到爱人的身边。如果这是个可能的事实,我愿意苦练钢琴。。。再一次见到你。



Follow the notes upon the journey
At first sight marks one's destiny
Once the voyage comes to an end
Return lies within hasty keys
随着音符踏上旅程
第一眼就决定了缘分
当旅途走到了末路时
回路藏在急速音律里

不能说的秘密

刚刚看完周杰伦主演的《不能说的秘密》。看了这部戏后,我感慨万分。

记得你曾经说过这戏很感人。我当时听了也不以为意。现在看了它后,我才了解到你所谓的“感人”。在戏里看到了男女主角之间纯纯的爱,浪漫恋爱中的喜悦。这感觉好熟悉。在戏里也看到了他们至死不渝的爱,看了也不禁地为他们感到心酸。

两个相爱的人因阴阳相隔,而不能长相厮守,这是一件多么痛苦的事。不是吗?

在戏里的最后一幕,男主角穿越时光回到了女主角的身边。这结局对我来说是个完美的结局。我好羡慕他们。

我们俩之间,存在着许多许多,只有我们俩知道的。。。不能说的秘密。。。


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冷咖啡離開了杯墊 我忍住的情緒在很後面

拼命想挽回的從前 在我臉上依舊清晰可見

最美的不是下雨天 是曾與你躲過雨的屋簷

回憶的畫面 在盪著鞦韆 夢開始不甜

你說把愛漸漸放下會走更遠 又何必去改變 已錯過的時間

你用你的指尖阻止我說再見 想像你在身邊 在完全失去之前

你說把愛漸漸放下會走更遠 或許命運的籤 只讓我們遇見

只讓我們相戀這一季的秋天 飄落後才發現 這幸福的碎片

要我怎麼撿

Thursday, March 17, 2011

Happy Birthday My Dear...

Hey Dear,

Today is a day which I'll always remember.

Hope you like this small bouquet of red roses. Happy Birthday...Miss you much:)

Monday, February 14, 2011

你是我心内的一首歌

闽南语:“你是我心内的一首歌。。。”



今天早上,在上班途中,耳边传来了一首动听的歌。88.3 正在播出王力宏与Selina合唱的“你是我心内的一首歌”。回味无穷,正如你喝了一杯香浓的咖啡后,想再来多几杯的感觉。它的旋律一直在我脑海里盘旋着。

“你是我心内的一首歌 ,心间开起花一朵 。。。”

这时我仿佛走进了另一个世界,陶醉在你我俩之间的小小世界。。。开始回味起往年和你庆祝情人节的情景。早晨的香吻,艳丽的鲜花,美味的晚餐和你灿烂的笑容。有一丝的感慨,心里也涌上了对你的思念。但我脸上还是显露了幸福的笑容,因为你给我带来的回忆是多么的美好。

"你是我心内的一首歌 ,心间开起花一朵。你是我生命的一首歌,想念汇成一条河 。。。”

回到现实生活。车子缓缓地在拥挤的“快速公路”上行驶。多么大的讽刺!看了看左边,看了看右边车子里的人。大家都面无表情似的,犹如行尸走肉。我们到底是要赶去哪里?大家为了什么在忙?值得吗?

“你是我心内的一首歌 ,心间开起花一朵。你是我生命的一首歌,想念汇成一条河。你在我心内的一首歌 ,不要只是个过客 。在我生命留下一首歌。。。”

在车里,感觉很舒服。看了看左边的坐位,看到了你那熟悉的微笑,开心地和我聊天。你再三嘱咐我今天是情人节,不能迟到,要早点到学校去接你。遵命!老婆大人!

“你是我心内的一首歌 ,心间开起花一朵。你是我生命的一首歌,想念汇成一条河。你在我心内的一首歌 ,不要只是个过客 。在我生命留下一首歌, 不论结局会如何 。好想问你 ,对我到底有没有动心 ,沉默太久 。。。“

我的心旋被这首歌给打动了,心里充满了幸福,浪漫的感觉。这种感觉很熟悉。就是我被你深深地吸引住的那种感觉。多么想紧握住你的手,亲一亲你。。。

“你是我心内的一首歌 ,心间开起花一朵。你是我生命的一首歌,想念汇成一条河。你在我心内的一首歌 ,不要只是个过客 。在我生命留下一首歌, 不论结局会如何 。好想问你 ,对我到底有没有动心 ,沉默太久,会让我不小心犯错 。你在我心内的一首歌 ,不要只是个过客 。在我生命留下一首歌 ,不论结局会如何 。。。”

这时歌曲也接近尾声。歌曲还没完,我已经开始怀念起这首歌了。很想再听多几遍,百遍,千遍,万遍。

老婆。。因为你是我心内的一首歌。一首无与伦比的歌,一首优美动听的歌。在我心里,脑海里永远地唱着:
“你是我心内的一首歌 ,心间开起花一朵。你是我生命的一首歌,想念汇成一条河 。。。”

Sunday, February 6, 2011

对春联

旅游时,常有很多时间花在巴士里,长途拔涉。大多数人都会趁这时睡一会儿,养养精神。

睡不着。对一对春晚节目的春联吧!
除了我在春晚节目对的第一对,我还对了另外三对,一共四对:

1)
出题~上联:春晚迎春春不晚
我对~下联:月圆赏月月是圆
这题对得最快。有可能我常写和月有关的文章,小品吧!

2)
出题~下联:五十六朵花开 五色十光六合春
我对~上联:千百万盏灯明 千家百户万事兴
哇!这题不容易啊!关键在于“五十六”以及后面与这三个数字有关的词语。我就以千对五,百对十,万对六。上联的含义还带点好兆头,还好吧!

3)
出题~上联:百善孝为先 常回家看看
我对~下联:四季春尚好 多出门逛逛
这题似乎比较容易点。刻意对,和春相关的下联, 还可以吧!

4)
出题~上联:虎步腾空去 悄然兔耳听春步
我对~下联:西下峦山中 一宿月眉探花下
这题最难!虎年一过,迎来兔年。需要对相关先后有序的下联。比如冬后迎春或夕阳西下后,月亮升起之类的。想了许久,对了很勉强,功力不深吧!不然就随便再对了多一次,比较简化但对我来说,有意义的。

再对~下联:老伴同我行 依旧携手闻花香

老伴啊!多么想再牵一牵你的手,一起走一走,做什么都好!这时我也困了。好想梦里遇见你。。。

Saturday, February 5, 2011

韩国迎春

这一次和家人到韩国来,也是我们第一次在外国过年。春节的气氛和往年在家所感觉的截然不同,因为韩国人没有大事庆祝华人新年。虽然春意不浓,但最重要的是能和家人团聚。

年三十晚,我们恰好住的是公寓酒店,可以煮食。我们就到超市买了韩国辣年糕,饺子,炸鸡,辛辣泡面等美食,吃了一顿丰盛、难忘的团年饭。

吃了晚餐,干了几杯韩国佳酿米酒,大家都有了点醉意。刚好这时电视正在播放中国中央电视台的迎春节目。在歌舞节目的助兴下,大家有说有笑的,房里春意已浓。这时我也想起了你。往事历历在目,思念起和你往年过节的情景。

这时银幕上显示了一对上联:
春晚迎春春不晚。

节目中的主持人解说了华人每逢过节都少不了对上下联来助助兴。这时我稍有醉意,也许也因为这样,诗意也慢慢地兴起。
想了想,我就对了:
月圆赏月月是圆。

字句还满工整的。不错不错。真的又是太多闲情雅兴。我想这就是古时候,为什么诗人喜欢在喝上两杯后,在有点醉意的影响下而写诗吧!
春晚节目还播放了另外四对对联供观众对对。接下来在旅游的几天,闲着没事时,我会动动下脑子,尝试对一对。

Thursday, February 3, 2011

新年快乐

新年快乐!