20years of service at Citibank…

Before I know it, 20yrs just fly by. Come to think of it. Wow!! How did I do it?! Mixed bag of feelings.. I can’t say I m proud that I have been in the same organisation for the past 20yrs old. Some might question my motivation to challenge myself with new endeavours in new organisations, while others applaud my sense of loyalty to my organisation. At the end of the day, to me, it counts for nothing. I have only just started and will continue to soldier on until the day that I can’t do it anymore. I shall Rest In Peace then😊

My Dear, I don’t give a damn!

Someone told me that don’t write messages with too many words. It's too lengthy and no one would bother to read your stuff. True to a certain extent, but I would think that it’s limited to only work stuff. But when it comes to important messages and feelings that you want to convey to your loved ones.. write as much as you would like to get your feelings heard; this is more important than keeping it short for the convenience of that person. If you feel strongly about something and it bothers you so much that you want to pen it down, trust me it's something that matters to you. And if you are important enough to her, she will bother to read what you have written and tries to understand your feelings, bothers to emphasise and shows concerns by replying you. Getting an “ok” or “will do” kind of answer just shows how “important” you are to that person. It’s time to move on and don’t look back, especially to a person who does not give a damn. And like in the famous last scene in "Gone with the Wind", you should proudly retort back "My Dear, I dont give a damn!"

英雄不问出处

英雄不问出处， 富贵应当思原由。

辛福的感觉？

什么是辛福的感觉？ 取决于珍惜、保护与照顾自己最最最爱的人，从而得到心里那暖吱吱的感觉。什么是暖吱吱的感觉？ 正如我儿子给我的那种感觉。只有我懂，他懂！哈哈

打油诗

千方寻名，名不就 无心寻功，功就来 无心寻香，香越浓 回心转意，意犹在

书法，写字，陶冶心情

小时候，我写的华文字糟透了。笔画乱七八糟，开始写得不错，之后，总是越写越糟。 笔握得不好，写字时，手会越写越酸。写久了，字体就开始潦草了。 我的人生也是一样。开始总是要好好地活，不要犯错，不让周边的人为我担心，受怕。 可是，我还是没能做到这点。 写字和做人的道理一样，要好好地做，就得付出心血，慢慢地经营，要坚持对的做法，写法，从头到尾一丝不苟地做下去。写错了，就从头再来。做错了事，就不要再犯同样的错误。 我必须时时刻刻提醒自己，鞭策自己。要不然，老了还学不好做人的道理，还写一手的烂字，真的是白活了呀！

一个人。白开水

一个人的滋味，像一杯无味，再普通不过的白开水。没什么沉淀，没什么污垢，没什么渣滓。再无聊不过，枯燥？乏味？倒也不是。 有可能，在被煮开的时候，也许内心是多么地被受煎熬，心情是多么地凌乱，沸腾。心绪许久不能平静下来。可是，时间久了，适应了世间和人与人之间的冷暖，慢慢地，我们也会找到一个平衡点。 所以说，一个人如果想开了的话，这意味了心灵找到了纯洁，思绪变得明镜般的透彻。有了领悟后，再也不会为了那些无聊的人或事给牵绊了。 一个人也能过得很好的。