Merry Christmas!!

Merry Christmas, my Dear!! Greetings from Hong Kong!! Just turned midnight now and the streets are full!! Miss you much:):)

闲人，闲情雅兴。。。

古时候，长情的人们喜欢在圆月夜，品品茶，喝喝酒，吟吟诗，作作对。
我没有他们的那种雅兴，可是今晚不知何故失眠，心里发闷，随便也试试，写了一对无理头上下联。

圆月夜，夜月圆。约圆圆元月阅月圆。
元夜缘，缘夜圆。愿渊远夜缘月夜圆。

哈！真无聊！没办法。。无聊的人总是有很多闲情做闲事。。。

Great Expectations...

Hey Dear,

Remember this show? Great Expectations starring Gwyneth Paltrow and Ethane Hawke. Remember the classic scene whereby the young gal gave the boy a "wet" kiss at the water fountain? And many years later, she kissed the shy boy again at the same water fountain? Hmmm.. you know what I'm thinking now? *wink*


Talking about "Expectations"... a good friend of mine reminded me about the dangers of having expectations on friends, especially good friends. He's totally right and I'm ashamed of myself for sometimes having "lofty" expectations on my friends. When you expect a "certain behaviour" from someone and if he/she fails to conform to the "standard", friendship suffers. Come to think of it, it's so silly... as friends, we are supposed to just be ourselves and enjoy each other's company; definitely not to "judge" one another. Thanks bro... for reminding me, if you're reading my blog.

Come to think of it, it also reminded me of my expectations of life in general and also expectations on my family and you. I had taken a lot of things for granted. I am guilty of hurting the feelings of my loved ones by sometimes passing insensitive remarks or venting my frustrations on them. I'm so sorry my dear as I start to recall now... some of those moments when I hurt your feelings deeply as a result of my gross insensitivities..

So to hell with expectations and just enjoy life as it is!!